Monday 19 November 2018

Ho, hyatun tila mandhan milat nahi

Mala roz vicharla jata... Do you work somewhere? Eka secondasathi vichar padto... Ho bolaycha ki nahi? Kadhi kadhi me manus baghun utter dete...
Me ek aai ahe. Ani hey me  majha kaam samajte. Pan mobadla milat nahi. Haan, kadhi kadhi... Mamma mhaun goad haak aaiku yete kani ter kadhi ek gaccha mithi... Pan mandhan milat nahi.

"tu kahi tari nidan ghari basun kar" hey vakya jevha eka 6-8 mahinyachya balachya aai chya kani padata, tevha tila prashna padto... Ki kahi velela tichi swatachi anghol pun hot nahi... Ho, pan barobar ahe tyatun tila kahi mandhan milat nahi.

Aaj majha mulga, way deed. Pahate 230am vajlya pasun kadi jojogayi kartoy... Mhanje thodkyat tyala khandyavar zopavnyashivay me dusra kahi karat nahi... Ani arthat tila hyatun kahi mandhan milat nahi.

Ek mala khoop avadta.. Aplya samajyacha soppa ganeet, mula nhemi baba sarkhi hushar ani hatti, vaya jat aslyas tar aaiche fajeel lad kinva mulankade durlaksha. Hyat mandhan sodach, apla mul kashat tar chaan ahe... Hyacha credit pan milat nahi.

Ek ghari basleli aai, tari swaipakala bai lavte, ghar avaryala pan ek porgi thevte. Mag ti ghari basun karte kay?

"bakichya baika bugh kashya pora sambhalun naukri kartat" kinva "ti amuk amuk bagh kashi bindhast ahe" . Ho, me hi baghte. Ghari basnari aai ahe, gandhari nahi. Mala kharach kautuk vatta je career sambhalun ghari laksha ghaltat... Pun tyanchyakade kadhi joint family aste kinva aaivadil jawal pass rahat kinva palna ghar zindabaad. Pun, jyanchya kade hey teenhi options nastat tyanchya careers cha kay?  Ani jya aai la avad ahe mulan barobar rahyichi tar?

Aai hona ha sarwaswi eka couple cha decision asto , mag ek aai mhanun rahna to pan swa khushi ne ghetlela nirnay asu shakat nahi ka?

Aai jevha mulala tyak kshani oradte ter ti vait pun "thamb baba la naav sangu" kinva "baba alyavar tula ordel" hi bhiti dakhavna te barobar , kasa? Mandhan gharat "to" anto mhanun sakali 9 vajta kelelya hatti pana chi siksha tya mulani ratri 930 la vadilann kadun ghaychi ka?

Kharay aai hona ek sarwat uchha sthann manla jata pun aai fakta mhanun rahna ek mandhan na kamavnari nirupyogi stree ashi olakh rahte... Karan tila mandhan milat nahi.

Naukri karnari vyakti... Stree aso kinva purush jar eka jaga daha daha varsha kinva agadi retire hoee paryant kam karu shakto tar ek aai tichya ayushatle 7-8 varsha mulan bhovati swa khushine kadhu ka nahi shakat? Oh! yes, karan tila mandhan milat nahi…

Kadhi kadhi tras hoto jevha aplech loka chut karun bolun jatat, ter kadhi hasayla yeta lokannavar ki "babre , tula kantala nahi yet?" aaiklyavar .. Pan khara sangu ka? Jevha ek mul aaila school madhlya gate pashi baghun... Anandani "maaaammma" haak marta... Kinva ek chhota mul na bolta sudhha aplya aaila sagla kalta bhaghun ek sundar smile deta... Te lakh molacha mandhan ahe!  hey konala kalo kinva na kalo... Jyala prashna padto ki ek aai ghari basun kay karte... Hey jyacha tyacha durdyava ahe.. Eka aai cha nahi 🙏

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